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夜读:一个人真正的教养,往往藏在他得意的时候

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取)(得)(成)(绩)(时)(,不)(伤)(害)(他)(人)(
记)(得)(大)(学)(毕)(业)(时)(,有)(两)(个)(关)(系)(好)(的)(同)(学)(进)(入)(了)(同)(一)(家)(银)(行)(。
3年)(后)(,a同)(学)(因)(为)(业)(绩)(做)(得)(好)(,得)(到)(了)(提)(拔)(。而)(b同)(学)(因)(为)(机)(遇)(和)(能)(力)(问)(题)(,一)(直)(没)(有)(得)(到)(晋)(升)(。
知)(道)(这)(事)(后)(,其)(他)(同)(学)(不)(免)(担)(心)(a和)(b会)(疏)(远)(。毕)(竟)(,人)(最)(怕)(的)(就)(是)(比)(较)(,尤)(其)(还)(是)(曾)(经)(的)(同)(学)(。
本)(来)(大)(家)(都)(是)(同)(一)(起)(跑)(线)(,突)(然)(变)(成)(了)(上)(下)(级)(关)(系)(,这)(放)(谁)(身)(上)(都)(不)(好)(受)(。但)(幸)(运)(的)(是)(,a和)(b的)(关)(系)(丝)(毫)(没)(有)(受)(到)(影)(响)(,两)(人)(依)(旧)(如)(影)(随)(形)(。
我)(曾)(私)(下)(问)(过)(b,为)(什)(么)(还)(能)(和)(a保)(持)(这)(么)(好)(的)(关)(系)(,心)(态)(不)(会)(有)(变)(化)(吗)(?
b告)(诉)(我)(,刚)(开)(始)(a成)(为)(她)(上)(级)(的)(时)(候)(,心)(里)(的)(确)(有)(些)(难)(受)(。但)(是)(a的)(表)(现)(,让)(她)(释)(怀)(。
因)(为)(a在)(晋)(升)(得)(意)(的)(时)(候)(,不)(仅)(没)(有)(盛)(气)(凌)(人)(,反)(而)(,非)(常)(在)(意)(她)(的)(感)(受)(,对)(待)(她)(的)(态)(度)(没)(有)(因)(为)(职)(位)(变)(动)(而)(有)(丝)(毫)(变)(化)(。
b说)(自)(己)(曾)(经)(自)(问)(过)(,如)(果)(自)(己)(跟)(a互)(换)(位)(置)(,是)(否)(能)(做)(得)(比)(她)(更)(好)(?答)(案)(是)(很)(难)(。
听)(完)(b的)(话)(,我)(也)(很)(感)(动)(,因)(为)(我)(知)(道)(要)(做)(到)(a这)(样)(有)(多)(难)(。一)(个)(人)(做)(出)(一)(点)(成)(绩)(,就)(想)(让)(别)(人)(知)(道)(,这)(是)(人)(性)(。
看)(看)(周)(围)(,无)(数)(人)(在)(得)(意)(后)(变)(得)(膨)(胀)(。比)(如)(,赚)(了)(点)(小)(钱)(就)(忘)(了)(跟)(自)(己)(同)(甘)(共)(苦)(的)(“糟)(糠)(”的)(人)(;出)(了)(一)(次)(国)(就)(忘)(了)(养)(育)(自)(己)(的)(家)(的)(人)(;当)(了)(一)(点)(小)(官)(就)(跟)(老)(朋)(友)(摆)(谱)(的)(人)(......
人)(生)(低)(落)(时)(,往)(往)(表)(现)(得)(有)(教)(养)(,也)(会)(表)(现)(出)(谦)(虚)(、努)(力)(等)(等)(好)(的)(品)(质)(。
人)(生)(得)(意)(时)(,还)(能)(站)(在)(别)(人)(的)(角)(度)(去)(考)(虑)(问)(题)(,不)(害)(到)(他)(人)(,才)(是)(真)(正)(的)(有)(教)(养)(。
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得)(理)(不)(让)(人)(,有)(理)(也)(输)(了)(
据)(报)(道)(,在)(岳)(云)(鹏)(17岁)(时)(,曾)(在)(一)(家)(饭)(馆)(打)(工)(。
有)(一)(次)(,因)(为)(不)(小)(心)(把)(3号)(桌)(点)(的)(两)(瓶)(啤)(酒)(,错)(写)(到)(了)(5号)(桌)(的)(单)(子)(上)(,其)(实)(就)(是)(6块)(钱)(的)(事)(。
结)(果)(,客)(人)(不)(肯)(买)(单)(,还)(大)(骂)(了)(他)(近)(3个)(小)(时)(。
经)(理)(去)(跟)(客)(人)(解)(释)(,也)(被)(骂)(了)(回)(来)(,最)(后)(岳)(云)(鹏)(不)(得)(不)(出)(了)(客)(人)(的)(352元)(餐)(费)(,对)(方)(才)(作)(罢)(。
2015年)(,在)(两)(度)(登)(上)(央)(视)(春)(晚)(之)(后)(,岳)(云)(鹏)(接)(受)(《面)(对)(面)(》栏)(目)(采)(访)(,主)(持)(人)(问)(他)(,“你)(还)(恨)(那)(位)(客)(人)(吗)(?”他)(说)(,“到)(现)(在)(我)(还)(是)(恨)(他)(!”说)(完)(就)(哭)(了)(。
生)(活)(中)(,总)(是)(这)(样)(一)(些)(人)(,一)(旦)(自)(己)(占)(理)(,就)(开)(始)(寸)(步)(不)(让)(,咄)(咄)(逼)(人)(,摆)(出)(一)(副)(有)(理)(走)(遍)(天)(下)(的)(范)(儿)(。
的)(确)(,有)(时)(候)(别)(人)(有)(错)(在)(先)(,但)(你)(得)(理)(不)(饶)(人)(的)(姿)(态)(,只)(会)(暴)(露)(你)(的)(教)(养)(。
什)(么)(情)(况)(下)(,一)(个)(人)(的)(表)(现)(会)(让)(别)(人)(觉)(得)(是)(得)(理)(不)(饶)(人)(?
我)(认)(为)(,就)(是)(在)(一)(些)(非)(原)(则)(的)(问)(题)(上)(,因)(为)(自)(己)(“得)(理)(”,就)(抓)(住)(人)(家)(的)(过)(失)(不)(放)(,穷)(追)(猛)(打)(、咄)(咄)(逼)(人)(,最)(后)(将)(小)(问)(题)(演)(变)(成)(一)(场)(大)(闹)(剧)(。
就)(拿)(岳)(云)(鹏)(的)(事)(来)(说)(,的)(确)(他)(有)(错)(,但)(说)(到)(底)(也)(只)(是)(6块)(钱)(的)(事)(,人)(家)(道)(歉)(赔)(礼)(,还)(不)(依)(不)(饶)(地)(辱)(骂)(纠)(缠)(,甚)(至)(不)(买)(单)(。
这)(样)(的)(人)(,可)(以)(想)(见)(他)(的)(素)(养)(有)(多)(高)(。
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尊)(重)(每)(一)(个)(服)(务)(人)(员)(
前)(几)(天)(,好)(朋)(友)(丹)(丹)(去)(相)(亲)(,据)(说)(对)(方)(是)(某)(公)(司)(的)(中)(层)(领)(导)(。碰)(面)(前)(,两)(人)(已)(在)(微)(信)(上)(聊)(了)(许)(久)(的)(天)(,丹)(丹)(对)(他)(的)(印)(象)(不)(错)(,感)(觉)(是)(个)(比)(较)(有)(素)(养)(的)(人)(。
所)(以)(丹)(丹)(对)(这)(次)(见)(面)(,带)(着)(一)(些)(期)(待)(。出)(发)(前)(,我)(还)(祝)(她)(好)(运)(。
结)(果)(,不)(到)(2小)(时)(后)(,丹)(丹)(就)(发)(了)(一)(条)(信)(息)(给)(我)(:“没)(戏)(。”
原)(来)(,这)(次)(碰)(面)(是)(在)(一)(家)(餐)(厅)(。进)(去)(的)(时)(候)(,男)(方)(喊)(了)(两)(声)(服)(务)(员)(,但)(因)(为)(生)(意)(太)(好)(,服)(务)(员)(没)(能)(及)(时)(赶)(来)(。他)(就)(直)(接)(发)(飙)(了)(,大)(声)(说)(自)(己)(被)(怠)(慢)(了)(,你)(们)(这)(的)(服)(务)(怎)(么)(这)(么)(差)(等)(等)(。
后)(来)(,餐)(厅)(经)(理)(来)(给)(他)(们)(道)(歉)(,他)(还)(不)(依)(不)(饶)(的)(。丹)(丹)(尴)(尬)(不)(已)(,一)(直)(打)(圆)(场)(。上)(菜)(的)(时)(候)(,丹)(丹)(对)(服)(务)(员)(说)(了)(声)(谢)(谢)(。
男)(方)(竟)(然)(说)(:我)(们)(交)(了)(钱)(,就)(应)(该)(享)(受)(服)(务)(,不)(用)(跟)(他)(们)(说)(谢)(谢)(。
丹)(丹)(说)(,虽)(然)(对)(方)(一)(直)(对)(自)(己)(很)(殷)(勤)(,也)(很)(有)(礼)(貌)(。但)(是)(听)(到)(这)(句)(话)(,就)(知)(道)(两)(人)(不)(合)(适)(了)(。
因)(为)(一)(个)(人)(的)(人)(品)(和)(教)(养)(如)(何)(,完)(全)(能)(从)(他)(对)(服)(务)(员)(的)(态)(度)(体)(现)(出)(来)(。
我)(深)(以)(为)(然)(,因)(为)(服)(务)(员)(在)(为)(你)(服)(务)(的)(时)(候)(,是)(处)(在)(一)(个)(相)(对)(低)(的)(位)(置)(,他)(对)(你)(构)(不)(成)(任)(何)(威)(胁)(。此)(时)(此)(刻)(你)(的)(态)(度)(如)(何)(,完)(全)(靠)(的)(是)(自)(律)(。
生)(活)(中)(,我)(们)(不)(难)(发)(现)(,一)(个)(真)(正)(具)(有)(高)(素)(质)(、好)(教)(养)(的)(人)(,一)(定)(会)(尊)(重)(基)(层)(的)(工)(作)(人)(员)(,比)(如)(外)(卖)(小)(哥)(、快)(递)(员)(、清)(洁)(工)(。
事)(实)(上)(,有)(些)(人)(的)(低)(姿)(态)(、高)(素)(养)(其)(实)(是)(刻)(意)(做)(出)(来)(的)(。真)(正)(好)(的)(教)(养)(,应)(该)(是)(无)(论)(面)(对)(任)(何)(人)(,都)(能)(保)(持)(谦)(虚)(的)(心)(态)(,尊)(重)(每)(一)(个)(人)(。
很)(多)(人)(常)(说)(,怎)(样)(判)(断)(一)(个)(人)(有)(没)(有)(教)(养)(呢)(?好)(像)(很)(难)(。
其)(实)(也)(不)(难)(,一)(个)(人)(有)(没)(有)(教)(养)(,就)(看)(他)(得)(意)(时)(的)(姿)(态)(。
试)(想)(,一)(个)(取)(得)(一)(点)(小)(成)(就)(,或)(者)(一)(点)(点)(虚)(妄)(的)(名)(声)(就)(飘)(飘)(然)(,开)(始)(吹)(嘘)(自)(己)(、看)(不)(起)(其)(他)(的)(人)(。或)(是)(一)(旦)(面)(对)(比)(他)(地)(位)(低)(的)(人)(,就)(开)(始)(居)(高)(临)(下)(的)(人)(。
这)(样)(的)(人)(,你)(会)(觉)(得)(他)(有)(教)(养)(吗)(?
谦)(虚)(谨)(慎)(,其)(实)(也)(是)(一)(种)(美)(德)(和)(修)(养)(,希)(望)(你)(我)(都)(能)(有)(。
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